December 2009 marked my 20th year in social work. This anniversary has led me to reflect on what I’ve learned and how (I hope) I’ve matured in the profession. The idealism of my younger self has morphed into a more resolute state – there’s only so much you can do in the time you have. Sometimes …
from the coach
Being Resolute in the New Year
Do you know the number one reason people don’t succeed with their New Year’s resolutions? They lack patience. We don’t succeed because we don’t stick with it. We get frustrated or lazy or tired, and when results don’t happen IMMEDIATELY; we throw in the towel. So many of us …
What Got You Here?
"What did you do that got you here, that you can now take responsibility for?” This question is one that has faced many individuals over time. It was the question asked of every new client I saw at the domestic abuser program I led for several years. I worked with batterers/abusers for seven …
