How to Have *MAGICAL* Conversations

“You will notice that those who speak most of prosperity, have it. Those who speak most of health, have it. Those who speak most of sickness, have it. Those who speak most of poverty, have it. It is Law. It can be no other way…  The way you feel is your point of attraction, and so, the Law of Attraction is most understood when you see yourself as a magnet getting more and more of the way you feel. When you feel lonely, you attract more loneliness.  When you feel poor, you attract more poverty.  When you feel sick, you attract more sickness. When you feel unhappy, you attract more unhappiness.  When you feel healthy and vital and alive and prosperous – you attract more of all those things.”  –Abraham-Hicks Publications

     The new media fad is to call the power of conversation “The Law of Attraction,” but any way you describe it, your conversation and your intentions create the life you live. 

     I love the quote above because it points to the power of your interpretation.   While we may not control every aspect of our lives, we can control our reactions, interpretations and conversations about our lives.  These conversations are powerful and they attract more of the same.  The Law of Attraction is not complex or magical… the bottom line is what you say is who you become.  The more you talk about your goals, the more you fulfill them.  The more you discuss the joys in your life, the more joy you have.  The conversations you put out into the world are the ones that give you the results in your life.  These conversations may seem magical, but they are designed and caused completely by you.  It’s all a matter of being awake to what you are causing.

     If you want a quick way to evaluate your conversations, do this exercise:  take a sheet of paper and make 3 columns.  1. What I cannot control   2.   What I can affect/impact  3.  What I can control.  Now look at the conditions, results, complaints and situations in your life that you deal with on a daily basis.  Categorize each of these in the columns just described.  Evaluate each one and look to see what conversation could you have that would alter or improve each item.  The items that cannot be controlled can be let go of emotionally and/or physically, or can be accepted for what is so. 

     Column 1: You can take the items you cannot control and re-interpret them.  For example: I am being treated for early stage breast cancer.  I cannot control the fact that I have the disease, however, I look for opportunities in treating the disease; such as, shifting the priorities in my life, taking my health more seriously, enjoying the time I’m allowing for myself, being less busy, etc. 

    Column 2: Most of the things in your life that are REALLY important fall in this category.  The things you can affect or impact all center around the results you produce and the influence you have.  What conversations can you generate that will produce results that will affect the items in this column?

     Column 3: You can control what you eat, when you sleep, how you spend your time.  Take responsibility for actually designing and causing these items consistent with who you say you are in your life.  And… DON’T COMPLAIN ABOUT ANY OF THEM… after all, you can completely control them.